Showing posts with label Self Development. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Self Development. Show all posts

Saturday, 16 August 2014

PM Narendra Modi's' Independence Speech on August 15, 2014

I have enjoyed Independence day by doing nothing at home. I don't remember, why but I have never listened to any of the PM's speech live on TV. However, this time I decided to hear the speech since it was Narendra Modi's speech. Had heard and read lot of things about him, how good his oratory skills are and his vision of India. I was not disappointed. He gave a speech for about 70 minutes..And I listened to his speech repeat for about 70 times on TV. His speech was that good. There were many 'first time'things which he did and there are many things which were very laudable and impressive.

PM at Red Fort on Independence day

I have tried to compile few of the things which I liked and remembered. Please note, that it may not be the same order as he spoke.

First of all, he was one of the very few PM who didn't wear a bullet proof jacket while giving a speech from the box at the Red Fort.

PM at Red Fort addressing Independence speech

Secondly, he said Main Pradhan Mantri nahin hun, main Pradhan Sevak hun, main aapka Sevak hun. Indirectly people working under him, may they be chief of Army or navy or ministers they too become sevaks!!!.. he said this by citing a difference between a job and a service. When you ask a person in a private sector, what he / she does, they say main job karta/karti  hun but the same question when you ask a government employee he says main service karta hun..Mr. PM said, service meaning they are public servants and not masters. They are here to serve the people ...He said it has become a common practice of bribing the people to get the work done. "mujhe kya milega...This should be removed. There should be transparency in the work.

Secondly, he was the only PM who after the speech mingled with the school kids and the teachers!!!

PM mingling with school kids
Thirdly, last but not the least, I think he must be the only PM who instead of declaring various schemes on technology talked about toilets!!! and dignity for women.

It is very right and true that if you want to develop, you first start from your home...In his entire speech he never blamed other parties neither touched upon Pakistan or Kashmir issues. He spoke about very basic issues which are very necessary for the upliftment of the society. It is indeed necessary to start the development from the roots. 

He talked about rape, girls women. He said when parents ask the girl, where she is going, whom she is going with, when she will be coming back, do they ask the same questions to their SON? it is high time that they start asking these questions to their son and not to their daughters..Their would be less incidences of rape and harassment of the women. He gave the example: if one family had five sons, it wouldn't give them guarantee that they would look after their old parents. But on the other hand, if in one family if there is only one girl, then she would sacrifice everything to look after her parents!!!

He talked about dignity of women. He said how women wait for the night to attend nature's call. It is a shame that their are no basic facilities for the women.

He also called for 'Corporate's' to help build separate toilets for boys and girls as their contribution towards social responsibility activity. 

He remarked that how people will think him as crazy or mad for not talking about big big developments / policy things on the Independence day speech at historical Red Fort but talking about TOILETS!!!

He talked about Make in India / Made in India..he wanted India to make a Skilled India...He wanted to stop imports and increase exports. For that he said we need to develop skilled people. He said even if One person develops a unique thing which will help in avoiding imports, it would be a great achievement. He wanted "Zero Defect and Zero Effect". He said our products should have zero defect and it should have zero effect on our exports.

He also talked about Digital India. He said once upon a time people used to say that Railways connect people, but now it is the technology that connects people. 

He also talked about e-governance.. He said by e-governance he meant easy governance, economy governance.

He wanted India to be a better tourist place and in order to become that he said first it has to be clean India. He said it is not only the responsibility of government but of the people also to keep the surrounding clean.  
In order to do that, he announced a award for the best 'model village'. This was indeed a very good idea. Every village will strive to become a model village and in turn will be developed clean village.  

He said we fought with Britishers to get freedom. Now we need to fight within ourselves to get rid of poverty and dirt.  

He narrated one incidence of two kids killing the pigeon. Pigeon is injured and it fells down. Both the kids fight for it. They go their mother for justice. They ask the mother who is greater ? the one who killed or the one who helped the pigeon to survive. Mother says the one who helped the pigeon to surveive is greater than the one who killed. That kid was Gautam Buddha..Bachane wala shrehstha hota hai marne wala nahin!!

He also gave the example of the people of Nepal as to how they have changed. There are lesser incidences of  communal riots, 

He said, Hum badlenge, tabhi desh badlega. It starts from "US"...NOT USA

He gave examples of the SAARC nations, esp Nepal, narrated the ideas and thoughts of Gandhiji, Jay Prakash Narayan, Swami Vivekanand, Lal Bahadur Shastri.

He said he could say all these things because he too have gone through these situations. He understands the plight of the people. He too came from a very average family. 

When I heard him, I also felt I too should contribute something. To start with, I decided to to do 2 things: first of all I will be free of ILL thoughts which may / will come to my mind..Never to think ill about people / or be jealous. One doesn't do these things consciously but sometimes it happens!!!.. Even if it happens unconsciously , I will remove it consciously. 

Secondly, I have decided I will keep Rs 100/- aside every month for my maid servant and will give it to her at the end of 6 months or 12 months. She will have lumpsum amount in her hand. Ofcourse without telling her!!!...

Thirdly, Have noticed that at our main signal on the highway, vagabonds have captured the area under the highway and have dirtied the place. They have captured even the footpath..Everything there is a filth. Will try to do something about that so that atleast the approach road to Thakur Village is clean.

Monday, 7 April 2014

10 THINGS YOU MUST NEVER DO


In order to lead a purposeful life where you are aware of your true potential avoid these traps that anyone can fall into easily 

Do not underestimate yourself: 

How can you hope to understand anyone else if you do not truly know your own self Step back,take a hard,objective look.Know your strengths and weaknesses;work on improving the former and diminishing the latter.Understand you are as good as the best with your own set of handicaps,as we all are.

Do not lead a meaningless life: 

Do not just cruise along.Set yourself goals so as to measure your life by achievements.Consider the realm of possibilities,aim a little beyond that.Break your goal into smaller targets and get going.Keep reviewing these goals and remember to keep shifting goal posts.

Do not ignore doing the right thing: 

Whenever your heart and mind lock in conflict,just do what you consider right,rather than desirable.You will never live to regret it.For this,you must have a clear set of principles,a firm code of ethics that guides your life.This may or may not meet societal guidelines,but must be well thought out and weighed in your own estimation of what is good and bad;right and wrong.

Dont get rooted in comfort zones: 

The easiest thing to do is work out a set of coordinates that create a comfort zone,and to rest within that.But keep creating disruptions that shake things up a bit and allow you to look and aim beyond the immediate and the available.That is the only way to grow.Creative destruction is an art that we must all learn.

Do not be strangers to your spiritual self: 

Focus on what you wish to tell yourself;listen to what the Universe wishes to make you aware of.Try meditation and silence;it helps you transcend the self and connect to your spiritual side.It is then that perspectives shift and all questions are answered.

Avoid negativity: 

Consciously school yourself to think positive.Do not associate with negative people.Make it a habit to remain happy and focussed.Cultivate hobbies that keep you engaged and creatively occupied.Do not play blame games;instead play games that keep the brain young and functioning.

Do not hold grudges: 

Learn to forgive others and more importantly,yourself.Neither blame nor pity anyone.We all make mistakes;what is important is not to repeat them.Vengeance is a poison that harms the carrier.Grudges make us bitter and stressful.Let go,and move on.Understand and believe that we all meet our just deserts in due course.

Never lose dignity: 

Be yourself.Do not strut around with borrowed feathers,nor allow yourself to be pulled down to the level of those who play nasty games.Do not push yourself into situations or relationships just because you feel it must be done.Adhere to the diktats of your inner self;maintain your dignity and standards.You do not need to explain yourself to anyone;be your own best critic and judge,responsible for yourself and your circumstances.

Do not ignore your core group: 

Carve space and time for people close to you relatives and friends.These are the people who stand by us in good and bad times,those who sustain and cherish our very souls.Do not waste time on parasitic relationships.

Cherish the smaller things: 

Life and love are nothing but a stringing together of moments.It is in the smallest things that we find our most beautiful and sometimes most catastrophic moments.Never ignore the small for the larger picture.Take time to appreciate and be grateful for the many little blessings you are surrounded by.It will go a long way in reducing that killer stress and making you a happy person.

You can never be everything to everyone,so choose your priorities carefully rather than spreading yourself out too thin.This will help you lead a satisfying,happy life.

(Source: TOI, 06.04.14)



Thursday, 15 August 2013

Actions are important than Words

Words are not important, Actions are important.. One needs to act instead of just saying I wish to do something, / Govt. should do something...Politicians should do something, Instead of expecting from others doing something it is important that YOU DO SOMETHING..YOU ACT!!!!!!!!!

Monday, 4 July 2011

what’s the one word that describes you


Was reading an article in TOI on ‘what’s the one word that describes you’ ???. Initially, I thought it was easy to describe oneself in one word….when I actually started to narrow it down to one word, couldn’t do so. Believe me guys, it is really difficult to describe oneself in one word!!!!!!!!!!........just to keep your grey cells running, can you pl. describe yourself in ONE WORD and mail it to me……don’t want to be the only person in the boat of who couldn’t do it …….T h A n K  y O u ………

After much thinking, I described myself in one word as “experimenting”…….I like to experiment myself in every situation of my life……

Any Takers ? ? ?