Maid in 2020

Maids are in highly demand lately. One generation earlier, females could manage homely duties along with 2-3 kids. Now, it is almost next to impossible in spite of having a single or two kids...Have even heard that a family of 3 members have 4 maids!!!Not joking, very serious...

Have even heard that females wait for the maid to come at home rather than HUSBAND!!

One day neighbour's maid didn't turn out for 2 days.She came to enquire about my maid whether she can work for 2-3 days till the time her maid comes. Unfortunately, my maid had just left and since doesn't have mobile (yes you heard right, she doesn't have a mobile!!!) I couldn't contact her. Over the conversation on maid with my neighbour, a very stupendous fact came out of the conversation. She said it has become very difficult to find maids now. Because of the fact that their kids have started taking education and they no longer wish to continue to do what their mother's did!!!!...dusting, watching clothes, cleaning utensils, etc.

I was taken aback when this thought struck me!!!No maid..baap re mera kaam ka kya hoga.???.mera kaam kaun karega???

Forget that, at least we were / are used to doing household work since mom never allowed us to wander / rest till the allotted work is done / finished

Is this the same with the current generation kids? I don't think so.. There may be few exceptions ofcourse. But majority of the kids don't even take water from matka or fridge!!!.forget about putting the plate in the sink or cleaning their plate..everything is given in their hands...They are hardly exposed to work..Everything is done by maid and whatever remains is done by parents..

Doest this mean, that the maids kids should not be educated? or does this mean that they should keep their tradition on by working as maids???Absolutely NOT..Every person has a right to educate..and earn and enjoy life...

Was just wondering what will happen to the kids when they grow up and find no maids to work for them!!!Will ROBOTS take their place???

Parents, JAGO ...specially the MOM's 

Please think before making everything available to your kids in their hands...

Love....

Conversation between two lovers

Mister: I love you.....

Miss:  Mister, do you know what love is? It is not just a four letter word. It is only one word but has so many emotions attached to it. Have you ever realized that?....It means, faith, trust, acceptance, belief, pain, feel ..Do you know every moment, every breath of mine yearns for you...Your very existence in my life means everything to me..Your mere presence lights up my mood...without any conversation, sans any exchange of words we end up telling everything....  what is this, if not love....You don't know, how much I love you...Every single bell, be it the door bell or the mobile bell.my heart stops beating thinking that it is You!!!..but my love , you never arrive, I eagerly wait for your visits...days, months, years....seasons come and go.. but i am still at the same place...waiting for you...Patience is the only virtue I have it with me right now...Every moment of wait is like.........  please don't disappoint me my love....make the wait worth it....I love you...

These are the thoughts which came to my mind and I wanted to Penn it down!!!!!!!

Any comments??

One liner.....

I want to be "The Women' in some one's life and NOT "The Other Women" in some one's life!!!!!!!!!!!!

Is being single a curse or boon....

Whenever you meet married friends, one always gets to hear as to how am I very lucky, fortunate for not being married!!! Reasons: no hassles of getting up early for preparing "dabbas" of kids/husband....taking studies....bearing the tantrums of kids/husband....list goes on and on......will they ever realise what stress we go under for being single...addressing to the people who wish to get married but are not yet:......."grass is greener on the other side" is so true & apt......if you think rationally, then yes it is both a boon as well as a curse....Curse: when u attend parties / weddings/get-together's ..you will find yourself alone in the ocean of people.......people have the habit of being inquisitive as to why /how we remained single.....whether there are/were failed relationships, affairs,...feel awkward to attend the weddings esp of younger cousins....people tend to add adjectives which the single person would be far away from those traits......in short, we find ourselves the victim of other people's comment who themselves may not be successful in their relationships....men take you for granted....they think we are always available to them for entertainment......if you happen to be close with male friends, females comment sarcastically on our single status......it is so sad that a women fails to understand a women..how do you expect MEN to understand !!!!!!!.....no one to pay the bills for the purchases made....most of all you feel lonely.....there is no one to share your experiences (good/bad).....last but not least your own family, relatives look down on you for being single....it is very very sad state of affairs...no female would wish to remain single by choice unless you have your own set of priorities or have decided not to get married........

Boon: free to do anything...no time bound activities....you are on your own to take the decisions......you tend to become independent, economically, financially  as well as emotionally, have time to devote to social activities / hobbies....can be advantageous if it depends on achievement of meaningful life goals and quality of the relationships you create.....